Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Day 301 - Why I Love You So Much


Pandora does great work helping me find songs to blog about.  Enjoy this throwback that's full of love...
"You give me the world and everything that I want for.  Since I've been your girl, o my whole life has been much better than ever before.  You got a tender sweet love, yes you do that weakens me and takes over me whenever we touch."  The singer of this song is experiencing a wonderful relationship in which she is being provided/cared for and one that has improved the quality of her life.  Not only is there provision, but there is also affection, love, and care that affects her physically as well. 
"Baby that's just why I love you so much. Baby that's just why I can't get enough.  Baby that's just why I love you so much.  I love only you."  For these reasons, she finds herself deeply loving this one in her life.  She feels that she just can't get enough of him, because he is just so great, that she wants more and more.  And because of all this, her heart has been devoted to him.  There is no room for anyone else, because what he does and the love he gives is sufficient for her.
"Now you say that you're down.  Oh, you said you won't play around, no, no not with my heart.  And when your boys come around, no you're not disrespecting me and not trying to be Mr.-wanna-be-hard.  You let them know that I'm yours, yes you do, by holding me, and kissing me - lets them know that for sure." Not only does the man in her life show her love, but he is respectful and truthful.  He even loves her enough and has enough maturity to show affection in front of his friends - he has nothing to be ashamed of.  There is no question for her or his boys what the deal is, and this is, of course, an added bonus.  Everyone wants to know that the person they love will happily claim them, especially in front of their friends and other important people in their lives.
"You don't ever say I'm too young for you, baby.  I've been around enough to know enough to know just what I want.  You don't move too fast or make me rush.  No.  One day we're gonna talk about making love no doubt, baby when the time is right."  Though age can sometimes be a concern in relationship, he knows her well enough to know that her age is just a number when it comes to their love and relationship.  At the same time, he respects her desires and decisions.  He has not pressured her to do something that she is not prepared for - another great sign of respect.  Even emotionally, mentally, financially, and in other aspects, it's important to respect the space where your friend/partner is.  Pushing someone to do something before they are ready usually ends badly.  It's one thing to want to help someone grow, but it has to be an act of love and grace for them, not a push of impatience so that you can gain the benefit.
"Baby, no one else can do what you're doing to me.  You take me and you hold me.  You rock me in your arms, baby, and I love you for that, baby.  You don't front in front of your friends
and you're smart enough to be a real man, and I love you, and I love you, and I love you for that baby."  No one else in her life has loved her the way she is now being love.  He seems to be a mature man of character and care.  He shows love to her, and she has responded by loving him.

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