In honor of Aaliyah's birthday today, I am choosing one of her selections to reflect on. This is one of my favorite songs that she does, and it's called "At Your Best You are Love." I think this song embodies some of the complexities and quirks of being in relationship. It talks about the days in relationships that are not all puppies and kittens and rainbows. There are days when we can be cranky or insecure, emotionally unavailable or in need of solitude. There are times when we aren't the ray of sunshine that worships the ground that our loved one walks on... "But at your best, you are love. You're a positive motivating force within my life. Should you ever feel the need to wonder why, let me know."
What I've learned is that, despite the quirks and issues and flaws that are inevitable in every person, at their best, they are love. At everyone's best, they exemplify and embody a deep, compassionate, tender love. Now, there can be many obstacles that keep people from their best, and some people allow those things to hinder, especially when dealing with insecurities and baggage. Relationships (the positive, God-ordained kind) are well-suited for bringing that best out of each of us, but that takes trust, patience, and a willingness to be open to allow the best to come out. But you're worth it, and so is your loved one.
Remember to be at your best, because your best is a beautiful thing. Your best doesn't mean perfection, by the way. It just means a place in which you are willing and trying, living with open arms and heart to improve your life and the lives of those around you.
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