Lacette Cross is definitely one of the beautiful people I spoke about in yesterday's entry.
Since I met her at her STVU orientation, I felt drawn to her, like she was just one of those people who I needed to know (I didn't understand the concept of beautiful people yet). We shared a sexuality class, and I noticed that she had a cool, wise, “unassuming” presence that caught my attention. When she came to hear me preach at Bible Study and I barely knew her, I was honored and happy, and it was clear that she was a genuine, loving person. I also soon realized that she was a diva. She took over my position as RA in the dorm, so we talked a lot about that and about dorm and middler life. And all along, even before I really recognized it, there was just something about just being present with her…. During Ellison we reconnected and joined forces with our other sister friends. I began to see that she was more than a diva with a big heart. She was a gifted woman who was safe space and wisdom. It made sense that she was the trunk to our tree and she was like another mother and sister to me. While I’ve had numerous friends throughout my life, it was rare that I found ones with whom I could truly share mutual relationship.
The main thing she's taught me is how to look at love in a more open and holistic way. When I had conversations with her, it reminded me of All About Love by bell hooks, and it seemed that she’d found a way to put a lot of what I’d read into practice. As she explained that she was open to love in whatever form it came and she explained her journey, I began to wonder if such was a possibility for me. Through her loving, authentic example, I've begun to open my mind to the endless possibilities of love, and I'm thankful for her opening the door and showing me the way. She's been gracious and patient, not only with me but with everyone she meets. We often tease her for her social worker tendencies in dealing with people, whether it's asking a million questions or talking/listening to any and everyone. As much as I pick with her, I know that appreciate her generous nature and the safe space that her presence naturally creates. I wouldn't trade our time and conversations for anything in the world.
So to one of my closest friends and sisters, to a truly beautiful person, I say Happy birthday, Lacette! I love you.
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